See already slacking...

        When I started this blog I kept thinking, "I am going to write, don't be a slacker".  Ok, I am starting to slack so time to write.  So I've been spending a lot of time on a beach that is themed with dirty old men trying to get with young girls. Young girls looking for that daddy figure.  I was  exploring one day and found it.  Granted I am not looking for a daddy, but I thought I look around.  Its a nice beach so I often sit there and im friends from a lounger near the water.  Sometimes if I am  lucky, I get to see a pair of grey lolas walking by.  ( Just like the "boys' part" they are always the last thing to rezz for me. )    The first few times I would sit there and no one would talk to me.  Which is fine with me...I tend to profile read then.  Well, lately I have been getting those ims.  Yes, I know the theme to the place so I should expect that.  BUT I challenge anyone to find a populated sim that isn't sex themed.  I know I have tried. 
             Gentlemen, I would like to give you a word of advice.  When a woman says she isn't interested, she isn't.  I will engage in a wonderful conversation with you, actually about anything you like.  You can offer me friendship and if I enjoyed your conversation, we can be friends.  I was honest with you in the beginning and you still continued to talk to me.  So I assumed you understand.  I am not the person you im until you find a girl to "entertain" then just stop talking to me suddenly.  I am actually pretty ok with a guy finding "entertainment" and saying "catch you later. see you later, etc."  I am on a beach with a certain theme, I am assuming you aren't here to talk sports.  BUT what drives me crazy is the "gentlemen" that ask for friendship, im me (note: im me not I iming you) then just stop talking suddenly as I see you go dance with another girl or on some pose ball of your choice.   Then get pissed at me when I say, "well I guess I will talk to you later then"   One guy I even asked for him to turn off his "look at" sites because I really don't want to be reminded how I am boring him with our conversation after he stopped talking.  (He imed me and I even commented I was going to say hi but I saw he was "entertaining".)  His comeback:

                                                 "Solid...buy a clue"

    If anyone can explain this comment..please do.  None of my friends understood either.  I guess its the only thing he could think of while typing with one hand.  The blood didn't rush back to his actual brain yet.  Gee...he even defriended me.  Its ok, your avatar looks better as a ghost now.
      I talked to a long term friend of mine and we were talking about how people on SL have lost the concept of just sitting with someone that is from somewhere else and just talking about things.  That is what makes SL so unique...conversations.  Lately, what I have found its a way for people not having to pay for cam sex on porn sites.  For me, it is nice to get life's little perspectives from someone that isn't from my area.  Someone I probably would never get a chance to meet in RL.  SL just helps make the world a little smaller.